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15 Tips for Putting Eye Drops in Your Toddler’s Eyes

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Eye drops are a standard prescription for toddlers with conjunctivitis or allergies. As many parents know, getting those drops into a squirming, teary-eyed toddler’s eyes often seems impossible. Even if you know the proper steps, many situations make this process even more challenging. 

Whether you’re working alone, with a partner, or with a distressed child, administering eye drops to a toddler can be easier if you remember tips like keeping the process lighthearted, making it into a game, being quick but gentle, or applying drops to your child’s inner eyes.

A Step-by-Step Guide to Administering Eye Drops to Toddlers

Let’s start with the basics before discussing specific scenarios and additional tricks. By following this step-by-step guide, you can create a smoother and safer process:

  1. Wash your hands: Thoroughly wash your hands with soap and water. Clean hands prevent the transfer of bacteria and ensure hygiene during the process.
  2. Prepare the eye drops: If necessary (as stated in the instructions), shake the bottle and remove the dropper cap without touching the tip to any surface.
  3. Position your toddler: Place your toddler in a comfortable position. Lying on a bed or sofa with their head supported by a pillow can help stabilize them.
  4. Explain in simple terms: Use simple, calm language to explain your actions. Phrases like “This will help your eyes feel better” can create trust and cooperation.
  5. Gently open the eyelid: Use one hand to hold the dropper and the other to gently pull down their lower eyelid to form a small pocket.
  6. Administer one drop only: Carefully place one drop into the lower eyelid without touching the eye with the dropper. One drop is usually enough for effective treatment.
  7. Encourage them to blink gently: Ask your toddler to blink a few times to spread the eye drops evenly. Avoid rubbing the eyes to prevent irritation.
  8. Reward cooperation: To reinforce positive behavior, follow up with praise, a small reward, or a fun story.

Timing is everything—apply the drops when your child is calm (e.g., after a nap or meal).  

Tips for Success Depending On Your Situation

Even with the steps above, challenges are inevitable. These general tips can help smooth out the process:

  1. Read the instructions: Every eye drop is different. Read the pharmacist’s instructions to ensure you administer the correct dosage and follow proper storage instructions.
  2. Use a tissue: Keep a tissue handy to gently wipe away any excess liquid and avoid drips irritating their skin.
  3. Stay calm: Children can sense your stress. Approach the process confidently and calmly to help your child feel at ease.
  4. Practice makes progress: The more you repeat the process, the more familiar it will become. It may take a few tries before it feels routine.

Tips for Administering Eye Drops as a Team

Having a partner assist you can make administering eye drops much easier. Here’s how to coordinate:

  1. Assign roles: One person can focus on holding and comforting your toddler while the other administers the drops.
  2. Sit or lie down: Position your toddler either on your lap or lying on a flat surface. This stabilization minimizes movement and increases safety.
  3. Maintain positive reinforcement: Both parents should remain upbeat and encouraging so the toddler feels supported rather than overwhelmed.

Tips for Administering Eye Drops on Your Own

If you’re a solo parent or need to handle the process on your own, here’s how to approach it:

  1. Use their favorite place: Administer eye drops in a relaxed environment, such as their bed or a favorite play mat.
  2. Stabilize gently: Have them sit with their heads on your lap or use a swaddling technique to secure their arms gently.
  3. Be quick but gentle: Move efficiently to keep the process brief—less time means less distress.

Working Around Closed Eyes

Chances are, your toddler’s first reaction will be to squeeze their eyes shut. Here’s what to do:

  1. Apply drops to the inner corner: If your child keeps their eyes tightly closed, place a drop into the inner corner of their closed eye. When they blink, the liquid will seep in.
  2. Keep the process lighthearted: To encourage them to open their eyes, use playful distractions like counting games or silly songs.
With an arm around their upset child, a parent explains the importance of taking eye drops, attempting to reassure them

Tips to Reduce Drama or Trauma

Administering eye drops doesn’t have to feel like a battle. Use these strategies to avoid drama:

  1. Create a ritual: Incorporate the process into bath time or bedtime to make it feel familiar and predictable.
  2. Turn it into a game: Pretend the drops are “magic eye potions” or make blinking like a butterfly a fun game.
  3. Stay cheerful: Frame the experience as something positive rather than a chore.

Helping a Distressed Child

If your child is already upset about taking eye drops, further calming techniques may be necessary:

  • Pause and reassure: Take a moment to reassure them with hugs or soothing words. Rushing under stress can escalate their distress.
  • Practice deep breathing together: Encourage your toddler to breathe deeply alongside you to promote relaxation.

If administering eye drops is impossible, consult your optometrist for advice or alternative methods.

Why Your Toddler Needs to Take Their Eye Drops

It may be tempting to skip doses during difficult moments, but it’s crucial to complete prescribed treatments. Left untreated, conditions like eye infections or allergies can worsen, potentially causing discomfort, complications, or more serious health issues.

Your persistence in administering eye drops ensures quicker recovery and better eye health for your toddler. Remember, keeping track of doses and finishing the course is as essential as getting the drops in.

Total Vision Solana Beach knows that administering eye drops to toddlers is inherently challenging, but it doesn’t have to be a source of dread. Preparation, patience, and positivity can make the experience more manageable for you and your child. Contact us today for further insights or guidance on making the process more manageable if you struggle to administer eye drops to your toddler.

Written by Total Vision

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